There is something about the past that either gives us fond memories or haunts us with regrets and thinking what might have been. While it doesn’t make much sense to allow the latter, emotionally we do so too often.
What do we learn from bad experiences or bad things we have done? We learn about ourselves. We learn we are not always at our best and we are capable of allowing a dark side of us to surface. This is never comfortable or enjoyable. But we can use them to our advantage by knowing where we are weak, and apply strong boundaries to these areas.
The better thing to do is enjoy the moment we are in, and look forward to what’s next. Changes will occur, and we will adjust to them either well or not well. Either way, it’s our decision, and we will live with it. I choose to see what tomorrow holds, and remember who hold tomorrow.